Why do people say woman dont care about looks and men are more visual and all that crap?

are you F ing kidding me? If a girl doesn't find a guy atttractive and continues dating him, more than likely she is just using him for his money. probably 8/10 that is the case. i know a lot of people like this.That's why you see all these chubs with skinny model chicks. we ALL have to be atttracted to the person that we date. it's just human nature. no one goes " aww hes so ugly i cant wait to bang him". if youre not physically attracted to someone and rather have a strong emotional connection that my friend is called FRIENDSHIP. to be in a relaitonship one must possess BOTH. i hate when people are all like " "personality is all that matters." nurp. stop.hold it. pause. that is the biggest load of bullcrap i have ever heard of in my life. if a guy has a heart of gold and his looks completely repulse you you are not fixing to give him the time of the day. women are quite as visual as men, they just like to PRETEND they dont care abt looks so they dont come across as 'shallow' or whatever. Sorry to be so blunt but this is my honest truth, and i would honestly like to know why people often say men are way more visual than woman when we all visual beings??? it's just wired in us as humans